Say Good-bye to Clutter
Now that you have a good system to remember your tasks at hand, the next big step will be to get rid of clutter. Clutter diminishes a smile, dampens the spirit, and so should not be tolerated.
It is very easy to find any given room in a cluttered mess, but it takes some hard work to de-clutter and organize.
Many people say that one of their favorite things to do when stressed out is to clean! Hard to imagine, right? Well, it is true. Cleaning gives order and purpose to your life, even if only in smaller chunks at a time.
We are not just talking about moving around clutter from one shelf to another. We are talking about de-cluttering every room of your home. Say good-bye to the dust, say good-bye to the junk say hello to room to breathe and move around! Now, doesnt that sound delightful?
Start out by drawing up a list of what you absolutely want done. Think about those leaning tower of Pisa papers in the den, then move slowly into the family room. See any piles of old photos just crying out to be placed in a photo album? Write that one down. How about those piles of clothing sitting in the bottom of your daughters closet just waiting for a mothers touch. Write that one down, too!
By now, if you are clever, you see a list of very workable, one-at-a-time chores that can be assigned throughout a busy day. The idea is to get started and work your way around. By the end of the day, you will have a beautiful, uncluttered home as your reward!
Do not become discouraged if your attempt to enlist your husband and children runs a-muck. Just write them down on your list as those who require an attitude adjustment and then save that chore for next time. One can hope!
If you are altogether frank about it, you really do not want a second pair of meddling hands anyway; some chores are best left to only one pair of hands. That way you can be sure that the chores will be done right the first time.
Feeling totally overwhelmed: thats the mantra most commonly uttered by those who find themselves in the midst of the chaos of clutter that grows with every mail delivery, notice from school, ring of the telephone, arrival home from a shopping trip.
How To Get And Stay Organized
If free time is a priority, then you may choose to limit the amount of extracurricular activities a child participates in.
They will be happy to help you again, next time you need them. Be sure to include a desk and accessories, various study aids, materials, a filing system in place for class materials, and good lighting. For some reason, you did not or could not keep clutter at arms reach. Give them their own household responsibilities and chores and then offer them a form of allowance.
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